It was a typical summer night in June 2019 with my daughters, age 7 and 10 at the time, brushing their teeth and getting ready for bed.  I reached down to scratch the top part of my left breast and felt a lump.  It felt like a small marble and hurt a bit to the touch, but I… Continue reading →

To make a long story short….Once upon a time, there lived a man called Mordechai, who lived with his niece Esther. Well, we’re not sure if she was his niece. Maybe she was his wife... or sister. The point is they were related somehow. In the same town, there was a king named… Continue reading →

My mom and I have always been close.  I am her only child and she raised me as a single parent.  In 2007 when she was diagnosed with Stage 1 breast cancer at age 48, I was devastated.  Her doctors’ first recommendation was to do genetic testing for the BRCA gene mutation,… Continue reading →

Nine years ago, I met Mari Guzman when our sons started preschool in the same class. I met Jennifer Dresser five years ago when our daughters started kindergarten together. We have become friends through our children and have many shared experiences, including our diagnoses of… Continue reading →

I turned 40 in April of 2020. I scheduled my first annual mammogram for June, figuring I would check it off my to-do list and I’d be good to go for a year. Never did I imagine that two months later I would end up losing both my breasts to a mastectomy. The initial scans… Continue reading →

Thank you for attending our genetics webinar.  Below are questions that were submitted before and during the webinar.  Some questions were similar, so I grouped them together and made a common answer. I have answered to the best of my ability for typical situations, but please… Continue reading →

12 months ago, I could never have imagined what this year would have in store for me. You probably feel the same about your year.  Well, one year ago, I was attending a Sharsheret fundraiser as a donor to the cause. It was that event that pushed me to schedule the… Continue reading →

Life was already hard. The pandemic made sure of that. In addition to losing my job, I was displaced from my home, my friends, and from most things in life that brought me joy. But I had my family. More specifically, I had my mother. A pillar of support, security, and… Continue reading →

I first learned about Sharsheret in 2007 when I became a sister of the Mu Chapter of Alpha Epsilon Phi Sorority at University of Illinois, Urbana Champaign. Sharsheret had already been one of Alpha Epsilon Phi's national philanthropies, so I knew what they did and why it was… Continue reading →

Who hasn’t been struggling with anxiety, control issues and isolation these past few months due to Covid-19 One might think I would be a pro in this type of situation after having been diagnosed with breast cancer in 2006 and again in 2012. As a cancer survivor, I know… Continue reading →

I thought I knew my breast cancer story.  I mean, who doesn’t know their own breast cancer story!  My story, as I knew it for eight years, was that at the age of 37, I shared with a friend that my breasts felt like they contained pebbles, so I had been proactively getting… Continue reading →

When I was diagnosed with breast cancer on December 5, 2019, I wasn’t at all surprised. I had felt the lump long before, but I was very involved with my mother, who had Parkinson’s and dementia. I had to frequently rush over to help her with her latest crisis, whether it was… Continue reading →

“You have cancer,” said my doctor. My mother had heard the same when I was six. Hers had metastasized by the time she got diagnosed. A devastating experience for my family. Now it was me.  About to lose it, I asked myself: “what would I say to a client if she were in… Continue reading →

Why am I a member of the Sharsheret Jewel Circle  This question takes me back to the very beginning of my most personal, and sadly, multiple connections to Sharsheret. I first learned about Sharsheret in 2001 when my sister, Margot Rosenberg Pulitzer Z”L, was battling… Continue reading →

On November 7, 2019, one day after my prophylactic bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction, my surgeon visited me in the recovery center. She asked me how I was feeling. I was honest and said I was overwhelmed. She responded with a comment that really struck a chord. She said:… Continue reading →

My grandmother was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in 2005. I had just turned ten years old and had arrived back home from overnight camp. I remember sitting in my grandmother’s kitchen having my mom explain the BRCA2 gene to me. She told me that my grandmother is a carrier,… Continue reading →

I am so very lucky.  Each day is a gift.  Like many others, I wasn’t one of those who did monthly breast exams, but I did find something that shouldn’t have been there.  I checked with my doctor, during my yearly exam, and, after some prodding from me, agreed that I… Continue reading →

It’s hard to believe that the High Holidays are here already! 2020 has been a weird vacuum of time. We’re all quarantined now and the Jewish holidays will certainly feel different than they ever have.  For me, the Jewish holidays will always feel different. Dealing With… Continue reading →

I’ve often thought that cancer and anxiety should be synonymous. And when you add pandemic to the equation…well…stress and daily meltdowns come to mind. I finished chemo for ovarian cancer one year ago and still wrestle with fear and control issues. But after two years… Continue reading →